a traditional baby shower

I am all about baby showers lately with my little sis expecting her first in a few months.

I was looking through some old pictures and came across photos of the baby shower she threw for me when I was expecting Adeline (2009). Hard to imagine my life without kids these days . . . . (what did I do with all my time?!) But she worked so hard to make that day special for me, not only did it look great but the entertainment was even better!  It was all adorable, just classic “baby.”

There really wasn’t a theme per say, we had a bit of a “ducky” thing going on, but I love the traditional look of it all. My sister has always been my party planning partner.  Now she got married and moved away. With pinterest, blogs galore and my new found talent in party printables we could have taken the party world by storm :) (move back to Florida Angelica!!)

Here are a few shots from that special day . . .

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who would have thought there was a 10lb (+ 4 oz) in that belly?! So blessed to have three amazing sisters, thank you Angelica for making that day so special!

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coconut oil

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So I have been hearing that coconut oil is the next best thing and a better alternative to butter. Always on the lookout for easy, healthier options to introduce at home I thought I would give it a try.

But when I compared some of the basic nutritional facts between coconut oil and butter I wasn’t convinced.

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Coconut Oil: 120 calories, 22 grams of fat, 60 grams of saturated fat

Unsalted organic butter: 100 calories, 17 grams of fat, 33 grams of saturated fat

what?!

Here is my take away after some research. Based on just the numbers butter appears to be the better option. However, apparently the fat in coconut oil has “good” fat . . specifically it has Medium Chain Triglycerides (MCT) fat which supports the immune system (just in case you wanted the specifics) :) Nothing like some healthy fatty acids. These fats are easier for the body to digest and provide a great source of energy.  I don’t know if this is really the new awesome super food to include in your everyday diet, as with anything – moderation is key (it is still a saturated fat . . .). But I suppose it’s a good option to mix things up a bit in a healthier way.

It has a neutral flavor (it tastes like nothing) and is solidified. I still use butter for most of my cooking but have found cocunut oil to be a great replacement in baking (I usually melt it first). It has a neutral flavor, honestly – I don’t really taste the difference.

I tried it out on this great honey whole wheat banana bread recipe from cookie + kate. DELICIOUS.

It didn’t make it through one sitting with my gang.

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If you are looking for a healthy bread that’s GOOD – try THIS.

I’ve also heard coconut oil works as an amazing moisturizer. Anyone else have any fun new experiences with introducing healthy alternatives?

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sweet dreams (in 100% cotton)

I love pajamas. There is nothing like snuggling up on the couch after a long day in a comfy pair of pajamas.

I imagine the little ones feel the same way :)

I’m writing a post on pajamas, something I never considered putting serious thought into and yet I actually have found myself complaining about pajamas on more than one occasion. These kids sweat when they sleep, especially Adeline. And sometimes pajamas can just get “sticky,” worn out and yucky. I decided to try some 100% cotton pajamas only to find out that a good, quality (pass down to 3 kids quality), cute cotton pajama is not that easy to come by. So here is my little compilation of 100% cotton pajamas. pajamas-011. Hanna Andersson – I’ve actaully never tried these yet but have heard great things. Not only are they 100% cotton – but organic cotton as well. Online reviews are excellent and they  have a lot of fun patterns for babies, toddlers and big kids.

2. Leveret pajamas – from Amazon. !00% cotton and AWESOME prices with great reviews. Haven’t tried them yet but thinking about it this winter.

3. Cath Kidston – sweet Charlotte recently received a pair of these from London as a gift and I’m in love. The perfect baby romper that I had to share (she makes big kid pjs too). So soft, comfy and cozy…and Cath Kidston ships to US.

4. Mini Boden – they have rombers for babies, two piece sets for toddlers and kids and Adeline’s favorite – the prettiest night gowns for girls. I’m a fan of mini boden’s night wear. Their night gowns are such a better alternative to disney princessy ones and have just as much cutenness factor if not more. I love these. And their summer pj’s have longer shorts (which I like) and are a big hit with us. The pictures below all feature some mini boden pjs.

 What are your favorite pair of little pajamas?

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We obviously love bedtime around here! (and I’ve realized my kids are wearing pjs in too many pictures..haha)

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bringing a piano into the home

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A few weeks ago we decided to purchase a piano off of craigslist.

My sisters and I grew up playing the piano. And although I didn’t always appreciate those piano lessons, I am so glad my parents encouraged me to play made me do it. I am no expert player, amateur at best, but it has always been a great outlet to de-stress and has given me an appreciation for music through a different perspective.

I’ve often had the girls involved in some type of “musical” activity, Kindermusik and a variety of music related story times at the library. It’s an activity I feel they respond to best as babies and young toddlers. (I’ve had great experiences with Kindermusik by the way) Adeline just turned four, I don’t know if she’s really ready for formal piano lessons. I’ve heard mixed opinions and haven’t looked into it too seriously yet. With her personality I think she may respond really well to a short lesson. Any thoughts on this? How young is too young to start?

Exposure to music and music training in children does have an effect on their brain development. The nerdy side of me finds this all very interesting. Multiple studies have been done on this topic in the past several years with some neat findings. I came across a recent study in The Journal of Neuroscience where it was found that musical training before the age of seven had a significant boost in brain development, specifically within the motor region of the brain. You can read a synopsis of this pretty cool study here.

So here is our piano.

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I learned that new pianos are extremely expensive, hence our affordable Craigslist find. It’s an Everett upright piano from the 1940s. It definitely shows its age in some areas but I actually appreciate that character….just so you know, in the piano world age is not necessarily a good thing and does not add any extra value. If anything the older pianos are usually worth less and not worth the money it would take to restore. When searching I looked for piano brands with a solid reputation that could withstand the beating of three girls (I googled and researched the ones I would come across on cragslist), same owner, where it was kept, made sure all the keys work… I’ve also read suggestions to have a technician check out the piano before a purchase, but since we weren’t spending that much on it to begin with we decided not to add another expense. There is also the issue of moving the piano, we did end up going with a piano mover we were able to negotaite a good deal with.

We still need to have a tecnician come over and give it a good tune up. In the mean time I’m thinking of ideas how to decorate around it. Here are some of favorite “piano” photos on pinterest.

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great contrast against all the color

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and love how these pianos just appear to flow with the rest of the home . . .

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Emily from Jones Design Company made a great wall of “L’s” above her piano (although I believe she changed it now)

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I’m a little obsessed with how Emily from EMILY. A CLARK. painted these stripes and made this piano work in her foyer

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This is one of my favorits. Kirsten from 6th Street Design School did an amazing job working this piano into this space.

One of my issues is that besides hanging some curtains up, we have never gotten around to decorating our living/dining room area. It’s on “the list.” It’s a great space with so much potential. We purchased the furniture for our town home where it was decorated and arranged much differently within different rooms. Put together all in one area makes the whole room look so dark . . .

When you walk in through our front door and look to the left you see this

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and when you look to the right you see this (quick iphone pics, pardon the box “house” and mess)

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All of the darkness – dark leather couches, dark coffee table, dark floors, dark dining room table and chars, dark foyer console were already kind of driving me nuts…and now a dark piano. I did push the console table down the hall to the little wall by the kitchen to break it up just a little bit – only now I need to find the means to get a cute foyer bench for the empty spot. There is so much I can do in here with color and texture. Gallery wall above the piano? Big neutral area rug? Awesome bold art print? It will get there…eventually :)

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be the best kind of mom

Be the best kind of mom by being your best.

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Growing up I had always loved little kids. I adored my nieces and nephew, was the babysitters club in high school, worked in preschools during college. Kids were fun, honest and refreshing. When we found out we were expecting Adeline I was so excited to start this journey for my own. We prayed for this little precious girl so much. We painted and decorated her room, looked for the best baby products, read a few baby books, took a class . . . we were ready. Or so we thought. You are never ready.

I had no idea what becoming a mom was until I became one.

To experience birth, to hold this miracle, to realize that I am 100% responsible for this life. For nurturing, raising and teaching this little girl. WOW, that’s a big responsibility. The most amazing and fulfilling experience, yet terrifying, humbling and overwhelming all at the same time.

Where do you even begin? What parenting style is best? How do I get them to eat? How do I get them to sleep? One thing I have learned in the past four years is that there are a lot of opinions on parenting. It begins from birth with delivery methods and breasfteeding decisions to only continue in parenting styles. From co-sleeping, attachment parenting, sleep training, parenting directed feeding, scheduled feedings, bottle feeding, baby wearing – as a new mom…I had no idea.

There are intense and strong views on all of those terms. Sometimes we get so stuck on the labels that as moms we put pressure on ourselves to do things a certain way. Mothers can be each others greatest support system and critic. Every child is different, every family is different and every mother is different. Respect each other but you have to do what works for you.  Go with your mama gut and just do YOUR best. Not anyone else’s perspective of their best. Never justify your parenting. Never apologize for the way you parent. God will not give you anything you can’t handle and he has blessed you with the perfect gift.

I’ve learned a lot these past four years. But often, I STILL have no idea what’s going on. And the moment I’m ready to give myself a pat on the back for having it “together” I get caught in a humbling act of defiance. So how do I become the perfect mom? It’s not possible to be the perfect mom. I will make mistakes. I lose my temper, get frustrated and say no too much. I text too often, worry too much and miss a lot of fun playtime opportunities. I realize this. I don’t want to just be a caregiver, I want to be a mom that gives my kids my best.

I don’t think I will ever stop learning on what it is to be a mom. But I realize that time is going by TOO fast. I’m incredibly thankful for these blessings. They make me want to be a better person. Whatever bad day you have had, never think you’re a failure as mom. We put these crazy expectations on ourselves to “do it all.” Talk to your friends, read the books, get advice – it is helpful. But at the end of the day, I know that I can only lean on Christ to give me the wisdom to be the mom He calls me to be.

I don’t want to miss the opportunities to be a mom. I can’t expect them to be their best if I don’t give them mine. 

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